I feel the need to scold you in much the same way I scolded L for not telling me about your blog. Perhaps you did a long time ago and I forgot. Perhaps I said something snotty about the blogs of some crazy people you had to deal with a year ago and you decided not to tell me.
Regardless, here are my thoughts:
Sexual chemistry is sexual chemistry. It either happens, or it doesn't. I'm sure some person would have sexual chemistry with that ego-centric sexual pseudo-deity you had to deal with (granted, not a person I that I would ever want to encounter in my universe, but whatever, they're out there. They deserve to get laid, too, as long as they're not republicans). Clearly, there was no real sexual chemistry with mr wannabe sex god, and he was extremely horny and willing to jump you, chemistry or not. It is a pattern amongst many of the male beasts.
I think over-sharing or 2 people not being in sync about the boundaries and progression of a relationship in its various stages is the scary thing. I don't know if I think "instant intimacy" is what I find scary-- sometimes people are very intimate with one another very quickly because they just happen to be in sync.
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intimacy?
Date: 2005-08-17 06:06 pm (UTC)Regardless, here are my thoughts:
Sexual chemistry is sexual chemistry. It either happens, or it doesn't. I'm sure some person would have sexual chemistry with that ego-centric sexual pseudo-deity you had to deal with (granted, not a person I that I would ever want to encounter in my universe, but whatever, they're out there. They deserve to get laid, too, as long as they're not republicans). Clearly, there was no real sexual chemistry with mr wannabe sex god, and he was extremely horny and willing to jump you, chemistry or not. It is a pattern amongst many of the male beasts.
I think over-sharing or 2 people not being in sync about the boundaries and progression of a relationship in its various stages is the scary thing. I don't know if I think "instant intimacy" is what I find scary-- sometimes people are very intimate with one another very quickly because they just happen to be in sync.
Hmm . . blathering. There's my two cents.
I miss you and L :(
M